Man on Woman..

The famale of the species..

Saturday, February 18, 2006

Are you a Pro..?

I said some 4 to 5 years ago around 2001, "There is a girl in every prostitute and a prostitute in every girl"
(I do not remember for sure what was the actual incident that made me issue a generic statement like that but it might be upon revelation of the true inner feelings of some girl I respected. )

By that definition if you are a girl you are a pro, but hey there is more to it, so please read on.
Infact I am here to defend myself that this statement is not correct. There are other quantitative methods to determine if a girl is a pro.

By definition a pro is a girl who gives sexual services in return of money. But why only money? And what if the medium of cash flow is not strictly hard cash.

Let me put it this way. A girl sleeping for a career in movies. She might argue saying that its a way to achieve her dreams and that its the only way to get into it and blah. But so can a pro who has a much smaller dream and might be doing that just for a living. Or may be a car, home, personal yet human necessitites. In varying degrees all girls give some kind of a sexual service in there lives to make it to their dreams. Like say a girl bending down to get her file pushed thru a sluggish govt office. Or let us say a model revealing in movies to get a foot hold in the industry. Sexual pleasure to the audience. The audience pay the theaters, they pay the agents, who pay the prodcers, who ultimately pays the model. Modern day Prostitution !!
Whatever the methodolgy adopted ultimately all girls basic dreams like even to have a great family is also realized by nothing but her abilities to give the ultimate sexual service to their spouses.

But then it will be harsh to call it Prostituion. After all a girl attracting a man thru sexual advances is adaptive and necessary for the success of the species and thus has to be differentiated from Prostituion. So our definition of Prostitution has to be changed to dtermine that fine line that differentiates between a girl practicing prostitution to achieve her dreams big and small vs another girl who simply succumbs to her inner desires and instincts to mate.

Then let us take to the latest difinition that sounds much more quantitative. If a girl has a count of the no of different people she has ever had slept with lets call it ok, else Prostitution. For if there ever was ever a fit between the screw and the nut the screw leaves its mark. And the nut 'remembers'. A pro on the loose will not keep a count of the various men but a girl will always remember the various men in her life.
However let us see if you understood the latest definition. A girl gone loose, having one night stands might also not remember each and every man she ever slept with. Pro or not? What ever you say she is a blessing on Man-kind. What say girls?

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

A thing of beauty is a joy forever..

This blog is inspired by the picture on the right.

Staring at the girl made me realize the fact that God has not closed His dept in charge of manufacturing truly beautiful girls.

However there were soon other thoughts and questions in my mind and hence this blog.

The questions that I have in my mind are the same as those any conscious admirer of beauty will have, however I went a step furthur in that I tried to do some research on the various facets of a beautiful face and tried to reason out my questions and their answers.

I start with a stereotype question, "What is beauty?" I specifically meant the beauty of a girls face but then the next question was whether our concept of a beautiful girl is different from that of a beautiful boy, or a beautiful dog or a beautiful car or a beautiful mobile phone.

Other ways to write this same question would be, How do we differentiate between something beautiful vs something thats just not pleasing to the eyes. I know at this juncture most of the simple looking people loving simple looking people using simple stuff would say "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder". Then let me also reframe this question for the benefit of those as Why do some people/things have more beholders than most of their counterparts?

To have a closer look on beauty lets have a closer look on the girl first. Yes she is a beauty. . .

She happens to be Sonali Bendre. One of the prettiest faces in the pantheon of actors from Bollywood, the sultry Indian film industry.

to be contd..